How to Keep Your Spouse in Your Arms Forever

Marriage Clinic 

Love is the most powerful force on earth; in fact love is divine because the good
book reported that God Almighty demonstrated his incomparable love for humanity by giving his only begotten son, so love flows from divinity to humanity. 

Amongst humans, there is no better way to express love than when two beautiful souls who truly love and tenderly respect one another are united in marriage, this brings to a climax an inherent longing and tender wishes of being in the arms of a soul mate. Oh, what a romantic dream come true moment! Sadly, most couples in no distant time begins to lose this much cherished heavenly moments carelessly or consciously watching the oil of their love dry up slowly like a glacial or swiftly like a mist. 

Preventing this, or nipping it in the board, is the only proven secret to a long love lasting marital sojourn. 

Whenever the adrenaline of hatred springs up in your marriage or relationship the first and the best thing you can do is to think and remember the un-payable sacrifices you have made, the wonderful promises you have offered and the wonderful dreams you have shared, never allow emotions to cover reason. Never allow those dreams, promises and sacrifices to be crushed by the wheels of hatred and bitterness. 

When you consciously conquered emotions remember and apply the most converting statement on earth “I love you” give him this golden statement when he least expect it, say when you have a quarrel, a misunderstanding, when he backs you on your matrimonial bed, when he punches you and when she nags at you. This soul healing words “I love you” will work wonders in this period of draught than when he sees it coming, because everybody will love when the going is smooth but not everybody can do same when the road to love’s bed becomes stony and bushy. Also, every farmer will plant his corn when it rains but not every farmer will gather the courage and faith to plant in the season of acute draught, so, it becomes news when a farmer sows at this time. Likewise, it becomes love unusual when you give love at the least expected hours.

Having decided to take this noble lane of a mediator to amend the broken net in your marriage or relationship, don’t stop at nothing until your goal is achieved remember Robert Schuler’s ever green advise “winners never quits and quitters never wins” if the healing words “I love you” fails to produce needed results or encountered stiff resistance then humbly use this soul melting and Gibraltar breaking words “please forgive me or I am sorry” say it even when you are double sure he is hundred percent wrong. Give it humbly, slowly and steadily though he may appear tough, you have already nail his ego and chauvinism, in no distance time his kneels will come crumbling down on your glittering thighs like a pack of card then you become the king and Queen of love. 

After conquering this battle of winning him back, then embark on this important round of keeping him in your crate forever by taking him or her as a friend not as wife or a husband. The mistake most spouse make is by taking their love mate as a wife not as a friend, wife or husband mind set brings an inner feeling of complacency and relaxation but friendship brings a continual renewal of thoughts and emotions which results in sharing of dreams and experiences even about the sound of a pin that fell down in your boss’ offices, life is all about sharing its ups and downs, its joys and sadness with someone – a friend who truly cares to listen. So, take your spouse as your friend and share those blows and pats on the back that life throws at you with. 

Keep maintaining this wonderful bliss with an unquenchable act of love making, having an active sexual life with your loved one is very important. It will draw you to true intimacy with each other and with good sense of humor. Make love every day, if not, at least 3 time a week. But do enjoy sex: after all, sex with love, is the finest thing ever!

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