The concept of marriage puts the fear of God in all of us because it’s a mystery only God knows the beginning and the end.
There are hundreds of things that go through singles mind, and this might be, what will your life partner think of your likes? Will they like you for who you are? Will there be a happy ending at the end of it all?
These concerns disappear when the person you marry is the person you’ve known and loved for the most part of your life, your best friend.
Below are steps to guide you in actualizing this dream;
1. There won't be any shocking surprises popping out of nowhere.
2. Married life is not always a bed of roses but it becomes easier when you’re with someone who knows how to handle your lows.
3. Marriage is built on the bed-rock of trust. And you trust your best friend more than anyone else.
4. The process of adjusting to your partner's tastes is much smoother because it's already happened.
5. Tiffs about your significant others’ “past” can play spoil-sport in a marriage. But when you share a common past, those tiffs go out the window.
6. There's no one on planet earth who can tickle your funny bone like your best friend.
7. You already know each other's favourite movies, music and drinks.
8. You never have to feel like you've let down your partner because you know each other too well for such petty worries.
9. You know their turn-ons and turn-offs like the back of your hand.
10. You may have days when you don't look your super-amazing-ultra-beautiful self but your best friend will love you even when you look like crap.
11. There will never be a moment when you feel like you're not at home.
12. No matter how crazy your dreams are, your best friend will never stop supporting you.
13. The little joys in life don't go unnoticed when you're with your best friend.
14. Your best friend can criticize you without you misunderstanding the intention behind it.
15. Growing old with your best friend is the best thing that can ever happen.
So if you’ve been wondering for some time now whether your best friend is indeed your soul mate, don’t think twice.
They say that friends are the family we choose, then why don’t we choose them as our life partners?
It will surely turn out to be a great marriage.
But in case, your spouse isn’t your best now, please don’t worry, watch out for our next post on “how you can make your spouse your best friend and soul mate”.
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